1. Sit in a comfortable chair in a quiet room
2. Put your feet flat on the floor and rest your hands in your lap
3. Close your eyes
4. Do the slow breathing exercise for three minutes.
5. After three minutes of slow breathing, start the muscle relaxation exercise below
6. Tense each of your muscle groups for 10 seconds, then relax for 10 seconds, in the following order:
- Hands: clench your hands into fists, then relax
- Lower arms: bend your hands up at the wrists, then relax
- Upper arms: bend your arms up at the elbow, then relax
- Shoulders: lift your shoulders up, then relax
- Neck: stretch your neck gently to the left, then forward, then to the right, then backwards in a slow rolling motion, then relax
- Forehead and scalp: raise your eyebrows, then relax
- Eyes: close your eyes tightly, then relax
- Jaw: clench your teeth, then relax • Chest: breathe in deeply, then breathe out and relax
- Stomach: pull your tummy in, then relax
- Upper back: pull your shoulders forward, then relax
- Lower back: while sitting, roll your back into a smooth arc, then relax
- Buttocks: tighten your buttocks, then relax • Thighs: push your feet firmly into the floor, then relax
- Calves: lift your toes off the ground, then relax and • Feet: gently curl your toes down, then relax.
8. As you become better at relaxation, it can be more interesting to combine these exercises with memories of relaxing situations eg. lying on a beach or doing a favorite activity.

